Hook: It’s the question we all dread: “So… how many people have you been with?”
Yikes. But seriously, should you be talking about your past?
Short answer: Yes but with intention and tact.
Why it can be important:
Transparency builds trust
Helps address any STI risks
Opens doors for conversations about preferences, boundaries, and triggers
What not to do:
Don’t compare body counts
Don’t judge or shame each other
Don’t use past experiences as leverage
Instead, use the convo to say things like:
“Here’s what I’ve learned I enjoy…”
“This experience helped me understand my boundaries.”
“Let’s talk about what turns us both on.”
And if you're feeling nervous? That’s normal. Just don’t let fear block you from real intimacy.
Golden rule: Share, but don’t overshare — and always aim for understanding, not competition.

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